Sunday, November 2, 2025

A Happy Ending for a Gentle Soul

By Tim Hadac
Managing Editor
Southwest Chicago Post



Months after I first brought this to light via the Southwest Chicago Post, I'm pleased to report there is a happy ending to the matter regarding the grave of Annie Derdak.

And I thank Don Krukowski, who helped care for Annie in her twilight years, for initially bringing this matter to my attention and for so faithfully and diligently pressing officials at Catholic Cemeteries, as well as others. None of this would have occurred without him.

Don's most recent visit to Resurrection Cemetery to tend to the graves of Annie and her beloved husband, Peter, came with a pleasant surprise: Annie's grave, at long last, is no longer unmarked.

Two years later, Annie Derdak's grave is finally marked.

I wondered how it came about, so I reached out to the executive director of Catholic Cemeteries. He failed to respond, so it remains a mystery to me whether Annie's next of kin finally signed the simple paperwork or whether Catholic Cemeteries did what I urged them to do: exercise their authority and simply mark the grave themselves.

Anyway, all's well that ends well. It's always a good day to report good news.

Background on this situation: Below is the original piece I wrote back in July.

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• "She was such a nice lady."
Annie Derdak

• "Annie was the sweetest woman. She was a neighbor for many years and always had a kind word for everyone."

• "I did not know her well, but whenever I would be out walking with my daughters she would always stop and chat with us, and tell us stories. She was a truly delightful woman."

• "She was my neighbor for 15 years! My parents and I talked to her all the time when we lived one house down from her. She was an amazing woman with a gentle soul."

That makes this situation that much more sad.

Annie and her husband, Peter, lived in their home near 57th and Newcastle for many years.

They lived, they loved, they laughed. They grew old together.

Peter died in 2016 at age 89. Annie died in 2023 at age 91.

After Peter died, Annie made sure his grave at Resurrection Cemetery was marked and cared for.

But 18 months after Annie's passing, her grave--right next to Peter's, of course--remains unmarked.
The graves of Annie and Peter Derdak.

This has caused a great deal of frustration and even grief for those who loved her and remember her fondly--perhaps most notably, Don Krukowski, who since 2014 helped care for Annie and Peter in their twilight years.

"I made a promise to Annie that I'd make sure her grave was cared for the way it ought to be," Don told me. "To not be able to do that is so frustrating, I lose sleep over it. It's not right."

So Don did a considerable amount of digging for answers. What he learned is that Annie's grave (purchased years ago) includes a marker--so money is not the issue. Everything has been paid for.

In a case like this, it's up to next of kin to fill out some very simple paperwork to have the grave marker made and installed. When there is no next of kin (as is the case here), the task falls to whoever Annie designated as Power of Attorney.

Resurrection Cemetery officials would not tell Don who Annie had designated as Power of Attorney over her affairs. But he found out from another source that it's a couple living in the southwest suburbs--a couple who had befriended Annie.

Don repeatedly tried contacting them--going so far as to pay a visit to their home. But he says he ran into what sounds like a bunch of baloney--everything from "I don't know" to "I don't speak English" and so forth.

The couple also did not respond to several attempts I made to contact them.

So I put the question to Archdiocesan officials.

I received a brief response via email from Catholic Cemeteries Executive Director Ted Ratajczyk: "In this particular case, we are waiting for the next of kin to authorize the inscription information. We have sent repeated requests to the next of kin."

Ratajczyk added, "For the cemeteries as a whole, we are not having any systemic delays for memorialization."

I asked a reasonable follow-up question:

"I'm sure such cases are uncommon but not unheard of. Does Catholic Cemeteries have a policy or protocol in place when next of kin dies or moves away and can't be found--or next of kin is estranged--(and yet the grave remains unmarked)?"

No response.

And so, Annie Derdak, a sweet woman with a gentle soul, is forced to endure--in death--the insult of an unmarked grave.

I think Catholic Cemeteries can do better.



Friday, October 31, 2025

Hale School Dad Blasts CPS Over Embattled Teacher, Phone Shutdown

Opinion
By Tim Hadac
Managing Editor
Southwest Chicago Post

Nearly two weeks after a Midway-area teacher reportedly made gestures mocking the slaying of Charlie Kirk, her school (Nathan Hale Elementary, 6140 S. Melvina) still appears to be in siege mentality--with its website and social media accounts erased and some parents claiming that phones are going unanswered with no voicemail options, due to full inboxes clogged (presumably) with messages from folks angry with the teacher.


Anyway, we all know the story. It made national and even international headlines--although it was given relatively scant notice by Chicago's downtown news media.


Opinion appears split on the matter, with some pointing out that the teacher broke no law and her gestures are speech protected by the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution.

I agree with them on that.

Yet others are asking if it is appropriate for someone who publicly makes repulsive gestures that mock and apparently celebrate murder, to be teaching young children in a local public school.

I agree with them on that.

Anyway, one of those people is Clearing resident Al Molina, an elected member of the Local School Council at Hale and the father of children attending Chicago Public Schools.

About a week ago (October 23), he wrote a long letter to members of the Chicago Board of Education.

Here it is.

First, let me apologize in advance for my lengthy message but what I have to share is extremely important. I am a very concerned Nathan Hale Elementary School parent and elected member of the Nathan Hale Local School Council.

After sharing a few communications with Network 10 Chief, Ms. Weber, and speaking to members from the Departments of the Board of Education and Safety and Security, I feel it is time to contact you directly.

I registered to be a public speaker at your 10:30 am Board Meeting on October 23, 2025 but was not chosen. I believe this was intentional because I am a Nathan Hale School parent and stated that I wanted to address safety and security at our school. I am sure some people do not want to hear my concerns about our school in a public setting.

Words cannot describe how distressing it was to view Nathan Hale Elementary School teacher, Lucy Martinez, simulate and mock the death of Charlie Kirk. Clearly, she did not agree with his political views. But rather than to focus on peacefully protesting for the cause she believed in, she took the opportunity to knowingly and purposely engage in gross behavior that promoted violence and the
death of another human being.

This behavior is unbecoming of a school teacher and must not be tolerated. Furthermore, I do not want this teacher to interact with my child ever again and there are many community members that feel the same way about our students. The number of social media comments from the community against this teacher are overwhelming

Charlie Kirk was assassinated on the campus of a Utah university. Lucy Martinez mocked his death by putting her hand in the shape of a gun, put it at her neck, and yelled, “bang,” numerous times. This was directed specifically towards Charlie Kirk supporters and has been seen by millions of people throughout the world through social media, news broadcasts, podcasts, and YouTube.

By celebrating the death of a father, husband, son, and political activist, she has demonstrated a lack of ethics and morality to the world. Our school has been terribly embarrassed and she does not deserve to be with our children. 

Chicago Public Schools have sent countless messages over the past several years stating, “Safety and Security is our top priority.” Yet this teacher is glorifying a school shooting and death all because the victim was someone she clearly did not
agree with politically.

If there was a school shooting at Nathan Hale Elementary,
God forbid, would Lucy Martinez mock the victims? Or does she only mock the victims of people she disagrees with politically?

If safety and security is a top priority at Chicago Public Schools than now is the time to prove it. She has compromised the learning environment by becoming an unnecessary distraction
and caused psychological harm to our community.

Freedom of Speech has consequences. If a Chicago Public Schools teacher attended an LGBTQ rally and celebrated the death of a member of that community, would CPS administration support that individual's right to free speech? I think
not and rightfully so.

In both cases the teachers should no longer be allowed to
work at our schools. There cannot be double standards, otherwise you have no standards at all and what a terrible lesson this would be for our students as well as a terrible message to the community. Chicago Public Schools educators promoting violence must always be unacceptable with serious consequences.

If Lucy Martinez is allowed to remain a teacher at Nathan Hale Elementary, or any other Chicago Public School for that matter, you will be sending a clear message to the community and public that her behavior is acceptable. The only people that
would agree with this idea are those that support her political viewpoints.

Political sides do not matter. Promoting violence must not be tolerated regardless of the issue. Just think about all of the Nathan Hale Elementary students and parents that have seen her disgraceful act countless times including my family and our son who now thinks very negatively of this teacher at his school.

Unfortunately, we have additional safety concerns at our school. 

Because of Lucy Martinez’s actions, the school website has been down and the phones are off. For the record, when I refer to our phones being shut off, I specifically mean that no
one is taking incoming phone calls as they are going to voice mail with the mailboxes being full.

I have addressed these concerns with District 10 Chief, Mira Weber, but it has fallen on deaf ears. This has never happened before and we all know that this was done specifically because CPS officials do not want the school to be inundated with messages and phone calls from parents, the public, and media because of the present situation. 

Parents like myself are being punished. Since Friday of last week, my child has been out of school with a virus. I have called the school nine times since then and every time I call it says, “The mailbox is full.” I call the main office, “The
mailbox is full.” I call the absence line, “The mailbox is full.” I even tried to reach the case manager for our school, “The mailbox is full.”

Other parents have shared similar frustrations and this can lead to serious safety concerns.

What if the police and fire departments need to call because of an urgent matter or emergency at the school or in the neighborhood?

What if the Department of Children and Family Services needs to call the school to check on a child that is
suspected of being abused?

What if there is a suspicious person around the school or something compromising safety is taking place outside and someone needed to call to inform the school?

What if parents have a family emergency and need to
call the school?

What if parents want to call their children’s absences in to keep
the school informed?

What if parents need to contact their children’s teachers, the
principals, dean, or case manager for various important matters?

The answer is the same for every one of these questions, they cannot contact anyone because the phones are down all because of the Lucy Martinez matter. Her actions have led to
these further issues.

We also have a problem with transparency. Wednesday evening, Nathan Hale parents received a letter from Principal Illes-Gomez. Near the bottom of the first page, this appears:

"We have not shut off our phones. I apologize if anyone had trouble getting through to our main office by phone. Many calls are coming in from beyond our school community, but we hope that these will subside soon. If you need something, please email your child’s teacher if you have questions."

Here is my problem. At 2:34 pm yesterday afternoon I called the office of the Board of Education to ask if I was chosen to be a speaker at the 10:30 am School Board Meeting. I was informed that I was not chosen and by the way, I never
received an e-mail message to confirm this as part of your protocols.

During my conversation with the gentleman that took my call, I expressed serious concerns and apprehension with our phones being down at Nathan Hale School. The gentleman was respectful and shared that he understood my concerns. He never stated that the phones were active, again, recognizing my safety fears with the phones being down.

Before our conversation ended, he provided me three phone
numbers. The first two were for the Safety and Security Departments and the third phone number was for the Law Department.

The first phone number to the Safety and Security Department was just a voice message, no help at all. The second number to the Safey and Security Department led to someone answering. I, again, expressed my detailed concerns with our phones being down. The gentleman I spoke with shared that he understood my worries and that they were aware that the phones were down as the department was
notified.

This left me dumbfounded thinking, how can the office of Safety and Security approve of our school phones purposely down? 

This is simply appalling.

I asked him to take my report. He said there was nothing to report, which left me frustrated. He was not being disrespectful, just stated that there was nothing they could do because they were already aware that the phones were shut off. Our phone call ended with me pleading with him to take may name and phone number and give it to a superior, which he agreed.

The message from the principal on Wednesday evening states, “We have not shut off our phones,” yet a member of the Safety and Security Department said to me directly that the department was award that the phones were shut off.

This is very troubling. It is worth stating again that I am convinced our web page and phones are down specifically because Chicago Public Schools does not want Nathan Hale
Elementary inundated with phone calls and messages regarding the Lucy Martinez matter. This is unfair to parents and compromises safety.

I will conclude my letter by asking for your strong leadership at this very important time. As a parent and Local School Council Member at Nathan Hale Elementary, I have outlined the present issues in great detail and ask for you to act in a manner that will help our school get back on track and away from the present distractions.

Our school community and neighborhood is experiencing hurt, anger, frustration, and fears that Chicago Public Schools will not do the right thing. There are serious trust issues and a lack of transparency as well. Safety messages sent out to parents
frequently come across as if they were written by your law department and not heartfelt.

This can all change if first and foremost, you put our students first by removing Lucy Martinez from our school and finding a way to allow incoming phone calls to be accepted by the school staff.

My sincerest appreciation for your time and attention to the issues that have been presented.



 

Thursday, October 30, 2025

Café 63 Steps Up to Help the Hungry

By Tim Hadac
Managing Editor
Southwest Chicago Post
 
A prominent small-business owner in Clearing is stepping up this week to offer assistance to help feed the hungry in the neighborhood.

Chef Dale Andrews, who along with his wife Donna, owns Café 63, 6411 W. 63rd Street, said he is concerned about the possible shut-off of Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) benefits to people living in poverty.
Chef Dale and Donna Andrews


“I’m thinking about SNAP recipients right here in the neighborhood, perhaps especially mothers with young children, who may have to go hungry because of the ongoing federal government shutdown,” he told the Southwest Chicago Post today. “If senators and congressmen in Washington won’t act to help the hungry, it’s up to the rest of us to step up and get it done. I pledge to do what I can, within my ability.”

If benefits are cut off, SNAP recipients living within the 60638 ZIP code are welcome to visit Café 63 and receive a modest, nutritious meal. Those asking for help must prove they live in 60638, as well as show a current SNAP card. Assistance is limited.

“We’ll do what we can, as long as we can,” Chef Dale added. “We can’t help everyone, but we can do our part. If we can feed even a handful of people in need, especially children, then this is all worth it.”

As news of the generosity began to spread in Clearing, another small-business owner stepped forward with a $200 donation to Café 63, to help pay for meals for hungry SNAP recipients.

“Ever since Café 63 launched in 2015, Chef Dale and Donna Andrews have built a reputation as a small business with a big heart,” said the business owner, who asked to remain unnamed because he wants to keep the focus on the Andrews’ good deed. “What they are doing now is just further proof of that. They are setting an example for all food-related businesses in the community to follow. I hope every grocery store and restaurant does the same. In this time of need, everyone should lend a helping hand to our neighbors in need.”

Monday, October 13, 2025

With No Time Left, Garfield Ridge Man Receives a Second Chance at Life

Retired firefighter grateful for gift of a lifetime

By Tim Hadac
Managing Editor
Southwest Chicago Post

Like millions of Americans, Shawn Hughes has long understood the value of organ donations.

But it wasn’t until now that the 62-year-old Garfield Ridge resident really felt that value.

Shawn Hughes
Hughes is currently taking it easy at home, recuperating after transplant surgery in August.

A son of the SW Side

Hughes grew up in Vittum Park—one of eight children. He attended Our Lady of the Snows School and went on to graduate from Curie High School in 1981. Back then Vittum Park was a tight little community, evidenced by the fact that Hughes and his grade school crowd still get together for lunch and other events some 50 years later.

After Curie, Hughes joined the Air Force and was stationed in Athens, Greece and later in Texas.

After several years in uniform, he came home and worked an office job for phone companies until 2000, when he got the call to join the Chicago Fire Department.

“I could have stayed in an office job, but I wanted to challenge myself,” Hughes recalls. “So I did, and I made it. It was the best move I ever made. It’s the world’s best job, the Chicago Fire Department.”

His CFD duties took him to a firehouse in Bridgeport, and his final years on the job were spent close to home at the firehouse at 56th and Narragansett—especially valuable because it enabled him to help raise his grandchildren.

Illness strikes suddenly

It was during that time—specifically, Thursday, Nov. 18, 2021—when Hughes was home alone and feeling out of sorts.

“I went to my bathroom and I just threw up,” he recalls. “I threw up blood. It was like a crime scene. There was blood everywhere.

“I knew I needed to get to the hospital. So I started to walk to the car…and I thought, ‘I can’t do this,’ so I called 911 and an ambulance came from the firehouse on Narragansett.” 

He vomited blood in the ambulance. “It just came on that quickly. It was an ordeal. Later, I was told I lost seven of 13 units of blood.”

He was rushed to Loyola University Medical Center, where he was in the ICU for a week, diagnosed with nonalcoholic steatohepatitis (NASH), characterized by inflammation and liver damage, along with fat in the liver.

“Well, they patched me up, I went home and we nursed it for a few years,” Hughes continues. “I didn’t feel terrific, but I was getting by.”

Health takes a sharp turn for the worse

He retired from CFD in 2023 and started to settle into a quiet life. But earlier this year, his health “took a turn for the worse. I started retaining fluids, I was huge with the swelling,” he says.

“On July 31, a doctor told me I was in such bad shape, ‘Either we’re going to get you a [donated] liver in a hurry or we’re going to have to let [the disease] run its course,’” Hughes recalls with a very slight waver in his voice.

His case was made a top priority for a transplant, and just four days later, the call came. A donor liver was available.

After a 12-hour surgery, Hughes and his family learned that the donor was a young man about 20 years old.

“I’ve heard he had a heart defect and his family was keeping him alive just to donate whatever organs they could,” Hughes says. “If they hadn’t made that decision, I’d have been a goner. I was within a few days of dying. I knew that because the [transplant] surgeon told me that when they took my liver out, the veins that attach the liver to the rest of my body just disintegrated in his hands.”

The gift of a second chance

“So that’s how close I was to dying. It’s not like missing a kidney and going on dialysis. If you don’t have a liver, you don’t have a life.”

He came home from the hospital several weeks ago, greeted by family, friends, neighbors, CFD brothers and sisters, and others.
He credits his sisters, as well as the rest of his family and friends, health care team and others with his survival.
(More photos below.)

“But for the grace of God, as well as the help I received from those pulling me through, I’d have never made it,” he says. 


“I get stronger every day. I’m fully aware that I was given a gift, a second lease on life. I’m going to live the best life I can. I owe it to everyone responsible for that gift, and I owe it to myself.”




(Editor’s note: To learn more about becoming an organ donor, visit giftofhope.org. To learn more about the fight against liver disease, visit liverfoundation.org.)









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